Teen problems
| Prof. Nada Ratkovic - 01 Apr 2025

Teenagers are people from 13 to 19 years old who are developing both physically and mentally during this period. This can be called the most difficult period because it is simultaneously a dangerous and pleasant time in their lives. This is a period when their final character is formed. During this period, even a slightly rough behavior can cause great trauma to a teenager. They need a cozy environment and good treatment. Some parents believe that if they are treated strictly, it will be better for them, but at this time everything is the opposite. At this time, an authoritarian atmosphere may be created at home. Parents can be possessive and try to make their children dependent on them. These two views can cause rebellion in a child or, conversely, kill the child's natural inclination towards adventure, which is necessary at their age. Children need to form their own views and aspirations. How do they understand the term "teenager", and whether a teenager is associated with freedom? Observe and study each other's views and aspirations.
  To make a comparison between Georgian and European teenagers. To find similarities and differences. To contact their peers in European countries via the Internet and study their aspirations.
w Teenagers, due to their current situation (age), have to adapt to two different environments: the home where they must live with their parents and the school where they must go to receive education... 1) The most important factor is the home where the child receives primary education, as well as learns elementary ethics and cultural behavior.
wAnd no less important is the school, where in the primary grades he gets used to interacting with his peers and receives general education. When neither at home nor at school he receives proper and objective information about such an amorphous formation as street mentality. As we have mentioned, he is unprepared, but if he possesses sufficient information and education, he does not stop at one stage and continues to develop. It is sad, but many children in today's Georgia cannot overcome this stage and develop an unclear kind of sympathy for street life.
wTeenagers often give in to impulses and this often leads to undesirable consequences for them. In my opinion, this is the charm of adolescence. Make mistakes and learn from your mistakes. Do what you want, what gives you pleasure, even if your parents are against it. This is the time when you have the opportunity to do stupid things with your friends, joke about meaningless topics, laugh a lot and also cry a lot about problems that an adult would laugh at. I am not saying that a teenager should be allowed to do whatever he wants. Moderate severity is also acceptable. However, a parent should understand that a teenager will still get his way and do what he wants, but the difference will be that he will do it silently and the parent will be deceived. In the 21st century, it is very difficult to trust a person at this age, but a parent is forced to trust his child, so to speak, in order to earn his trust and be more involved in his child's life. …. A person is formed slowly, slowly acquires qualities, therefore he is obliged to follow the ladder of life and not fall behind.
wThe problem of Georgian teenagers (and not only teenagers) is that they differ in mentality from European teenagers… They shout a lot and do little… They say they are independent, they can do everything, but they cannot express their position out loud. They start smoking somewhere where no one will see them and then try to get rid of the smell from their hands. They are afraid of everything, no matter what happens, they say one thing and do another. This problem of smoking does not only concern boys, many Georgian girls also smoke and spoil their lives. They hide it from their parents and also try not to let them notice anything.
 Now let's consider computers and teenagers. This problem in Georgia (some don't even consider it a problem) is divided into two: those who believe that computers help people in many ways and those who believe that computers only harm people, but they still don't give up sitting at the computer. Most teenagers in Georgia believe that computers help people in many ways and some don't even think about what sitting at them for a long time can cause, while some simply say that they are harmful to people but still spend a lot of time with them.
 Social media takes up a lot of time for children and leaves them less time for learning. Nowadays, when they want to read something, they search for the desired story on the Internet and read it there. This proves that the Internet has a very big place in the lives of teenagers.
  As you know, the teenage years are a time when everyone wants to have fun and be with friends, but the issue of teenage work is quite relevant. Most teenagers like the idea that they can have their own money and not have to beg their parents, so to speak, but despite this, a very large number of teenagers are too lazy to work or cannot work due to certain issues, such as their parents' different opinions about work or lack of time due to good studies.
 Let's consider school and teenagers. Most teenagers think that school is not necessary, they don't listen to teachers, they don't study and they behave badly. You have probably often heard the following phrases from your friends: “Oh, how bad it is when school starts”, “I'm so lazy”, “What does he do there every day”, “What do I need school for”, etc. ...
 This is precisely the problem. Our teenagers, especially students in grades 9, 10, 11, 12, are lazy to go to school and have no desire to get an education (there are many exceptions, of course). This is probably due to age, because laziness appears precisely during this period.
 But what's worst is that they don't even want to do anything useful outside of school. On the contrary, they don't care much about their parents' opinions, don't pay attention to anyone, and follow their own obsessive thoughts. They drink alcohol , andoften become interested in cigarettes.
 All this ultimately leads to disastrous consequences, which, you must admit, is very unfavorable..!
 The biggest problem of Georgian teenagers is that they cannot express their opinions boldly because they are under the influence of their peers. There are countless people who believe that fashion is what they like and do not care about other people's opinions. In my opinion, such people will succeed more in life... Georgians follow the crowd and cannot take risks to do what they like, and this is the fault of a bad mentality. One or two people cannot fix this, but each person should try to do what they want and what will bring them happiness. The decisive word on this or that issue should be theirs, not many other people's... And so slowly, let's hope that every person will have their own opinion on all issues and, most importantly, they will not be afraid of others and openly express their opinions.



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